Holiday Intimacy Tips from the Momentum® Community

The holidays can get hectic. Travel, family gatherings, unpredictable weather, and jammed packed schedules can make it hard to carve out time for intimacy. But with some planning and creativity, you can make things feel warm, connected, and enjoyable.

We turned to our Momentum® community, our loyalty program filled with engaged brand fans who earn rewards for interacting with and purchasing from ONE®, and asked them for their best holiday sex advice. From playful to practical, they shared some great insights. Here are a few standout tips, along with guidance to help you stay safe and comfortable this season.

Pack a “Holiday Naughty Bag”

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Preparation makes intimacy easier, especially when you’re traveling or splitting time between multiple homes. A small bag or pouch stocked with a few festive essentials ensures you’re never scrambling at the last minute. Our Momentum® community members suggest packing:

Using a protective case, like our ONE® Extra Condom Tin, keeps condoms safe from being punctured, being bent, or damage that could occur when loose in bags, wallets, or luggage. Keeping condoms in a sturdy case helps maintain the integrity of the foil wrapper, which is essential for keeping condoms effective and ready to use!
Our Momentum® community members recommend packing travel-friendly lubricants like our ONE® Oasis® water-based lube which is lightweight and easy to clean, making it great for quick, on-the-go moments. ONE® Move® silicone works in situations like longer-lasting sessions, anal play, or anytime you have more time to enjoy the moment(tum). Can’t decide? ONE® Oasis Silk® is our hybrid lube that gives you the best of both worlds.
Grippy socks for stability on cold floors (wink wink).
For discreet travel, pack a small toy or mini vibrator, like the fun options from our friends at SheVibe.
Stay toasty with an electric blanket or hand warmers for those chilly holiday moments.
For quick clean-ups, pack up some wipes or moist towelettes.

Packing these items thoughtfully helps protect your products and ensures you can stay relaxed, safe, and connected throughout the holiday season.

Use Seasonal Activities to Build Connection

Intimacy starts long before you get home. Simple, cozy activities can help partners reconnect during an otherwise busy season. Our Momentum® community suggestions include taking a walk to see holiday lights, grabbing a warm drink together, or relaxing by a warm fire. Prioritizing these low-pressure moments allow you to unwind, feel close, and shift into a more intimate mindset for later on.

Stay Warm, Safe, and Comfortable

Cold rooms, dry winter air, and tight schedules can make intimacy a little trickier. A few practical adjustments can help:

Have a soft blanket on hand for extra warmth…and a little holiday fun.
Warm your lube beforehand using a lotion warmer, holding the bottle in your hands, or running it under warm water for a few seconds.
Try lightly scented candles (one community member recommended peppermint as a subtle festive touch) to make things feel seasonal without overwhelming the senses.
Make sure your condoms are stored properly at room temperature—freezing or overheating can weaken the condom material and reduce their effectiveness.
If you’re in a new location, check that locks, privacy, and boundaries are clear before getting started to avoid disrupting the moment.

Travel Intimacy Tips

Holiday travel often involves shared walls, unfamiliar beds, and unpredictable schedules. Our community recommendations include:

Bringing a mini, quiet vibe or toy if you need solo relaxation time while visiting family or staying in a hotel, Airbnb, or any other lodging accommodation.
Taking advantage of steamy showers or warm hot tubs for intimacy or foreplay (while avoiding penetration in hot tubs, since condoms can be affected by high heat and friction).
Keeping communication open when privacy is limited.
Planning intimacy before big meals, when both partners feel more comfortable and relaxed.

The overall advice: work with your environment, not against it.

Prioritize Communication and Realistic Expectations

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The holidays place a lot of expectations and pressure on people– emotionally, socially, and physically. Many of our Momentum® community members emphasized being flexible and honest about what you have the energy for with your partner. Check in with each other about timing, comfort levels, and needs. Give yourself permission to slow down, change plans, or shift routines depending on how the week is going. And don’t forget to set aside moments for solo pleasure and self-care when everything feels overwhelming.

Small Seasonal Touches Go a Long Way

For those who enjoy getting creative, here are a few thoughtful ideas shared by the community:

“A soft scarf can double as a warm blindfold or sensory accessory.”
“A cozy blanket and dim lighting instantly make a space feel more inviting.”
“A small bottle of massage oil can help release tension from travel or cold weather and get you in the mood.”
“Enjoying the warmth and glow of a fireplace (real or electric), candles, or Christmas tree can create a relaxed, intimate environment.”

These small touches can help partners feel connected even during the busiest parts of the season.

Holiday intimacy is all about balancing comfort, creativity, safety, and communication. Whether you're traveling, staying home, or managing a full schedule, a little preparation and thoughtful connection can make the season feel more intimate, warm, and enjoyable. Want a recap of our other Momentum® community responses? Check out some of our other blogs. Want your submission to be in the next round of our ONE® blog highlights? Join Momentum® today and complete missions for your chance!